I Love You (in 5 years)

Did you ever write a letter to your future self? Tonight get out the pens, paper, and envelopes. Sit down at the table with your honey and write love letters to your "future spouse". Decide on a time frame-these could be for 1, 5,  or 10 years from now.


 Of course while you sit and ponder what you want to say to them that they will read in a few years you are going to want the snackage! Have an array of snacks: healthy or indulgent, but really put in the time to create something that will be meaningful. Don't be afraid to be sappy and funny!

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